Improving Boy's Education in Early Childhood

 


I have selected the topic of Improving Boy's Education in Early Childhood. Because it is a fact that globally we are losing our boys. As a result, we can hardly find healthy males willing to take their rightful position in society. Also, to assist females with certain tasks. With that said, I have found a fascinating article regarding our boys.

Article: Raising and Educating Healthy Boys: A Report on the Growing Crisis in Boys’ Education 
Here is the link to the article: https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED500855.pdf

Summary of the Article

Children as young as three and four are really good at observing, and they see the inequities. We are sanctioning this in our practices, and everyone is absorbing it. -- Luba Lynch Executive Director A.L. Mailman Family Foundation

 We need to start addressing issues of gender socialization of boys and girls at the preschool level. At stake is the full potential of each individual child’s cognitive, social, and emotional development. -- Barbara Sprung Co-Director Educational Equity Center at AED

Ideas about how boys and girls are “supposed to be” are planted early. The messages boys receive about what it means to be male in this society are connected to their socioemotional and academic development. If we focus on boys’ school experience early on, we will improve education for all children. -- Merle Frosch Co-Director Educational Equity Center at AED

We have to start with very young boys. Sometimes adolescent boys communicate with silence. We know that boys crave connection and, if we can find ways to make it safe, they can expand themselves. -- Denise Glyn Borders Senior VP & Group Director U.S. Education Workforce Development Academy for Educational Development 

We do not help boys develop the language of feelings. The culture demeans their inner lives. If you have feelings or are sensitive, you are not an authentic boy; you don't fit in. Boys halve themselves by disavowing qualities as they get older; anything feminine is not a boy. Mothers feel that they can't rely on their own instincts on what is good for their sons. -- Susan Shaffer Deputy Director & Director of Gender Equity Programs Mid-Atlantic Equity Center

One of the research questions was, “Have you ever expelled a student from preschool in the last 12 months?” We defined expelled as "told to leave the program forever, never to come back, not part of the planned transition to another class or program." The answers were quite startling and reveal that many boys are never even given a chance. -- Walter Gilliam Assistant Professor of Child Psychiatry and Psychology Yale University Child Study centre

Reference

https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED500855.pdf

Comments

  1. "Ideas about how boys and girls are “supposed to be” are planted early." This statement summons it up. Being an educator and bias at the same time is no easy task. We have to remove our views, beliefs and influences or wishes from parents and just boys and girls and for who they are " children"
    Then you have single mother's like I was looking for the book titled " How to raise a boy" and it didn't exist! Father 's telling "boys"...be a man, toughen up, don't cry! All unfair and unrealistic demands to put on a child who is just learning how to tie his shoes! I feel we ECE have be boys as well as girls saving grace and provide and support them with tools of how to be expressive, happy and comfortable in the skin they are in.

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  2. Hi Sherida,
    I agree with Anne and the researchers the our societal expectations and biases are planted early in children's lives. From giving girls pink clothes and boys blue before they are born and extending through the toys and behaviors marketed and taught to children growing up. It is important that we as educators remember that NAEYC's code of ethics that we "recognize and respect the unique qualities, abilities, and potential of each child" (NAEYC, 2011). We must as educators make sure our own biases are not impacting the children we work with daily. Thank you a sharing a stimulating research study.
    Best, Rebecca
    References NAEYC Code of Ethical Conduct and Statement of Commitment. (2011, May). https://www.naeyc.org/sites/default/files/globally-shared/downloads/PDFs/resources/position-statements/Ethics%20Position%20Statement2011_09202013update.pdf

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  3. Thanks for sharing. Your statement that we need to teach our boys the language of feelings is so important. What are some ways that you think teachers can encourage emotional development in the classroom?

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    1. Hi Itze,
      Thank you for commenting and leaving such a powerful probing question. Teachers can foster the language of expression through Mentorship Programs, "Father & Me Time"', creating a "Boy's Club" and also, conducting parenting sessions to provide parents the tools necessary to assist their child(ren) in expressing themselves.

      Sherida

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  4. Hi,
    Excellent choice of topic. This is what I am experiencing in my school. From experience and data, boys, especially African Americans, are misunderstood at times. Learning their learning styles and teaching/coaching them to express their feelings is a must. Paying our young boys a little more attention and trying our best for them to succeed will go a long way in the future.

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  5. Sherida, nice blog! Being a mom of both boys and girls make it tough. My husband is tough on my boys and doesn't want them playing with girl stuff. Just sitting here thinking about all the things you wrote vs what he does is very similar. He says he wants them strong and tough. He is also very sensitive and will do anything for them. I don't want my boys to feel as if they have to be tough all the time.

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